Here is a nice little story I read recently.
One day, a timid young swordsman sought the counsel of an older, battled-hardened warrior.
“Sir, the men say that, of all the King’s warriors, you are the most courageous.”
The old warrior, who was busy sharpening his sword and who spoke only when necessary, didn’t lift his head or utter a single word. He was not impressed by flattery, so he continued to sharpen his blade; the blade that had seen him through many battles.
Listening and sharpening. Listening and sharpening.
Before long, the young warrior felt uneasy…and fearful.